- August 1, 2016
- Posted by: Dr. Elise Cohen Ho
- Category: Love & Romance
Am I really going to share five reasons why your advances were rejected?
Of course, I am going to talk about why you were rejected for sex.
Understanding why your advances were rejected has the benefit to help all parties involved.
Let’s get to improving that sex life!
1. Lack of Sleep.
Sleep deprivation causes so many issues all of which can interfere with sex. Here we have a lack of energy which can lead to a decreased interest in sex and low testosterone levels. Frankly, it can also mess with the niceties of everything that comes before sex such as speaking to each other with love and respect in addition to feeling calm and happy. If your partner has rejected the idea of sex because they are exhausted then suggesting a nap can be just what the doctor ordered.
2. Medical reasons.
Reaction to medications, chronic illness, low testosterone and many other medically related issues can be interfering with your sex drive. You can look to Herbs For Better Sex, we can discuss some possibilities privately and it may also be a good idea to seek answers from your medical doctor.
3. Poor body Image.
Studies prove, over and over, that many people have no interest in sex because they feel unattractive. Do all you can to make your partner see all of the sex appeal that you see through your eyes. Describe all of the amazing things about their body, their face and all of the ways that they make you feel wonderful. In this last one, you can absolutely talk about all of the sexy things that they do but also talk about how they make you feel.
4. Lack of Connection.
When we are emotionally connected to the person we are with we can turn to real and true love making . Enjoy quality time together, have an uninterrupted conversation where you are truly listening to one another, and enjoy a meal that includes great Foods For Better Sex.
Lack of Foreplay.
Foreplay is an integral part of really great lovemaking. This is the warm up before the game. It is sexy and full of anticipation. It also serves a physiological purpose. Foreplay helps to prepare the body and mind for sex. It brings blood flow to some very important areas such as the penis and clitoris. Blood flow to the penis is needed for an erection. Blood flow to the clitoris is a very necessary part of orgasm. If you want some great help in the foreplay department then I highly recommend 101 Nights of Great Sex by Laura Corn.
So let’s wrap this up so that you can get all wrapped up with your lover.
There are various reasons why sex may not be happening and there are many ways to make all of that change. Here I have touched on a few.